Francesca Dattilo, MSW
Certified Law of Attraction Coach
Certified Style Coach (MIASC Accred.)

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SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE HAVE MET THEIR AMAZING FUTURE

  • By Francesca Dattilo
  • 06 Sep, 2017

"When I look into the Future it is so bright it burns my eyes!"  (Oprah Winfrey)

Do you believe that we have thousands of potential future selves?  In this given moment, you can determine whether you will have a horrible future, a good future or an amazing future and these future selves can manifest in so many ways. 

I bet if I were to ask you which future you would choose, your initial reaction would be: “Well, I would choose an amazing future of course!”  


I use a process in my coaching with clients called the 5 Roads where I ask them to visualize 5 possible future realities.   Each of these roads has a certain level of darkness or light to them and each road has a corresponding feeling or vibration to them.   Try it for yourself and you can see what I mean.  

But, when I ask my clients what road they would choose, they typically choose the road that is most comfortable to them and not the most amazing future they could have.


This might seem strange, although it is quite common.   See, most of us have a set point for success and happiness and only allow a certain amount in.   It is like the thermostat in our homes which keeps the temperature at a set point that we determine.   For example, if the temperature goes down to 10 degrees Celcius, the heat kicks in.   Vice versa when the temperature goes to 25 degrees or above in the house, the air kicks in.   We create things in such a way that it stays within the set point range.   We don’t allow ourselves to go above or beyond that range.  


If you notice that you are most comfortable on a less than amazing future, you are experiencing resistance.   In other words, your thoughts and feelings are not in alignment with your goals.   You are thinking in limited and constricted ways and it is affecting the way you feel; filling you with doubt, discouragement and fear .  

If you notice that you are most comfortable on a less than amazing future, you are experiencing resistance.   In other words, your thoughts and feelings are not in alignment with your goals.   You are thinking in limited and constricted ways and it is affecting the way you feel; filling you with doubt, discouragement and fear .  


Do any of these thoughts sound familiar?


  • “Success is not Easy”
  • “You have to work hard for happiness and success”
  • “You have to give up something to get something”
  • “No pain, no gain”
  • “There is just never enough”


 

If we want to move beyond our set point and what is comfortable to us, we must be willing to develop a relationship with our most amazing future self.   This relationship must be cultivated over time, just like any other good relationship. 


The future is really our source of healing, change and success.   The degree to which we allow for an awesome future self strengthens or weakens our current self-value and self-worth.   When we allow ourselves to have an awesome future, we allow in more love, value, and abundance in the now and we strengthen our self-worth.  

Every thought we think is projected into our future.  Our present shapes our future. Our future can shape our present if we deliberately create it .  The universe want us to learn and grow through love and joy.  Painful lessons are there because of our limiting beliefs.  If you were to choose these thoughts:


I create what I want easily and effortlessly”

“I allow myself to have more than I ever dreamed possible”

“I open to receive more love, joy and abundance” 

“I am well provided for.  I live in an abundant universe” 

“The purpose of life is joy”


You would feel more freedom, abundance and joy.

When we consciously create our future we are more powerful and we exercise our ability to choose the life we want to live.

I invite you to my workshop on September 26, 2017, "Create the Career and Money You Want using the Law of Attraction" to learn more about developing a relationship with your successful and prosperous future self.  To find out more, click this link:   https://www.facebook.com/events/1605707869468842/?acontext=%7B%22source%22%3A5%2C%22page_id_source%2...  or contact me.
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